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Based in Austin, Texas, The Sexual Life is a company dedicated to teaching men personal identity, lifestyle change, and success with women. Founded by Steve Mayeda, who began work originally as a pickup artist for Mystery Method and then later LoveSystems, The Sexual Life aims to teach men how to succeed with women based on stories, conversations, and material directly related to their identity. Total awareness of self and a full understanding of seduction and sexuality are the goals of all of our products and services. To learn more about our philosophy, what to read first, and how to get started, click below:

Recent  Articles

July 12, 2014 |

The Birth of Life

  “The Story of Pain & the Most Beautiful Woman in the World” Life is the most beautiful...

July 7, 2014 |

Conversation Building – TSL Quick Lesson Part 1

Conversation Building Based on Authentic Identity This video is part of a series, where we take your Identity and...

July 4, 2014 |

Live by Your Ideals – The Better Man’s Guide to Happiness

  When you don’t believe in yourself, act on what you believe in. This is Part 2 in a series from The...