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NEVER MAKE OUT AT A BAR (If you want good sex, fast sex & have her feeling great)
And by all means…please BREAK THIS RULE. The overall goal is to
- Have Sex
- Build a Healthy Sex Life
- Feel Proud About Your Sex Life
There are many roads to that having a good sex life that empowers you. There are many ways to ‘get laid’ using social dynamics to have a good sex life.
However, let’s get into what I am talking about here, because if you want to have more sex, have better sexual experiences…fast and NOT shame women…well this is some important stuff.
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DIRECTLY FROM THE AUSTIN MEN’S DEVELOPMENT BOARD
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“so to explain, I will start with the history of the whole pua thing. SNL (Same Night Lay) did not exist in the PUA world until this guy ‘Captain Jack’ coined it. In 2006 the PUAs called this a fools mate and didn’t consider it ‘game’ because the girls wouldn’t sleep with them afterwards and had shame. By 2009 no one gave a fuck about shame and would just fuck chicks…and that still goes on.
CJ (Captain Jack) said ‘Hey I fuck plenty of chicks on within 20mins-4hours of meeting them and they fuck me over and over again and feel empowered and like women, but I do it differently’.
CJ was who I learned from. Become I got any ‘day 2’ closes I got SNLs.
So I follow this rule and often times we broke it, just because we could. However, still to this day after having out with a ton of the ‘world’s best puas’ I have never seen anyone get laid more consistently and effortlessly than CJ. I have seen people pull more, get laid more and get laid quicker, but it was sloppy and reliant on excess stimuli, booze or drugs. I have never seen ‘the world’s best’ over and over again go up to a woman, simply talk to her and then have her willingly leave with him in about 20min for talking to her.
I have also NEVER seen them constantly talk to women at a club at around 10pm for 10 mins, then let her go, find her at 2am and leave with her with NOTHING in between.
This to me was the standard and it still is, when it comes to SNLs.
I persoanlly eventually went for whatever worked in the situation but learned this model first.
So here’s the deal, if you build tension through framing or some sort of physicality but do NO SEXUAL ACT in public it builds more and more tension, but it also creates a situation where you’re in secret. The biggest things that will get in the way of her having sex with you are these things –
Her thinking you do this to everyone
Not seeing her as unique
Not seeing her as an individual
Her friends seeing
Her friends or the public and especially you thinking she is easy
I would much rather bust through those (In about 10 seconds) at her place than to do something like a sex act (Kissing) in public at a club or bar. I mean I have madeout with plenty of chicks at the bar and banged them, but Jesus man, what a way to put more walls up in front of all these choices she has to make –
-Continue to be with the guy at the club
-Leave the venue with the guy, while her friends watch and see
-Get in the car with the guy after she got swept away at the club and made out with a guy
-Drive back knowing that the only thing the guy is thinking that he’s going to fuck me
-Walk into his place or my place
-Get a phone call from a girl friend and now they know I’m with a guy
-Get started sexually all over again with a guy who I just met.
It is just so much easy to NOT have any of those things affecting those decisions. It is WAY easier to get sexual once. In fact there is no benefit, other than to just go for it because you want to (usually because you don’t trust the sexual process).
If you ask women how they slept with a guy on the same night they met him they say, ‘It just happened. One thing led to another and…’
So basically we tried to recreate that.
Here’s the deal, if you push too hard during sex you will produce more resistance. If you’re really good in bed they will come back but doubt you. If you start cutting out the sexual stuff in the club, you can suck in bed, but the choice for them to sleep with you will be their’s and feel good and they will come back.
Just think if you’re good in bed and you can pull all that off…then you’re the man with the Golden Dick!
That is the brief history of the SNL. I am happy to be a part of that history.”
All that being said,
I’d recommend 2 things
Join our Austin Men’s Development Board – CLICK HERE
Take the FREE Instant Connection Course – CLICK HERE
It will teach you how to Start a Conversation, Make a Connection & Get Sexual following this same model outlined above.
Word to the mother
Steve
