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SAME NIGHT LAYS | Getting Sexual Faster Than This Podcast
Recorded on a Men’s Development Sunday Call Jan 1, 2017
How do we meet a girl
Sleep with her on the same night
& Have Great Sex
No Shame,
No Regrets
Only Being Proud to be a Sexual Man
First thing’s first –
This is a ‘Part 3 to these other Podcasts. It is best to listen to them all to get the full depth.
Part 1 – Ep 142
Part 2 – Ep 143
They’re really necessary if you want to have that great sex life we are breaking down for you here.
Every man needs to know what it is like to be able to meet a woman, talk to her for an hour or 2 (20mins-4 hours) then leave with her to have some of the best sex of their lives.
This obviously sounds too good to be true, and the whole industry of Dating and Men’s Development has sold crap like this to men over and over again.
Here’s the Stone Cold Truth – I have done this hundreds of times, my mentor did this hundreds of times and I have taught it to hundreds of men that have done it hundreds of times.
I also teach it in a system that is easy to do and you can learn quite quickly.
Even if your goal is not to get quick sex, this will be beneficial to any man’s dating life and as you can see it ties into TSL Podcast 142 & 143.
You should also be reminded here, this isn’t just ‘fast sex’ it is fast sex that is good sex. This mean she will be satisfied, won’t feel objectified or embarrassed for having sex with you, in fact she will feel more like a woman if you do it right. That means you’ll feel like a man, a man that can be proud of his sexuality and proud of how he’s talking to women and proud of being sexual.
Few things to Know About SNLs
INTRO – 00:00 – 2mins
1. Social Behavior in the Venue (02:00 – 04:30)
The venue you’re in is going to have a certain tempo and pace that human beings will always follow. Get to know wherever you’re meeting women and see how people behave. When and where do they relax? When and where are they the most distracted? These are questions you should know.
2. What You Need & Don’t Need (Where Pick Up Get’s it Wrong) (04:30 – 06:26)
Most people think social value, or extra convincing is the path to sex. You can’t ‘sell’ someone on sex. You can turn someone on and lead them. If social value is getting you laid, that means you’re a celebrity. In the 11 years I have been involved in Pick Up & Dating I have NEVER seen someone become a celebrity, but I have seen a ton of men fake it. Faking it doesn’t work.
What you need to learn is how to turn her on and lead properly. You also need to know ‘resistance’ is fine. It just means she needs to be made comfortable with the decision to listen to her body and not her social judgment.
3. Stay in the Venue all the way to the End (06:27 – 10:43)
Too many guys that want to leave with women do not stay until the club closes. They leave 10-15mins before. They are usually doing this because they are disappointed in themselves. This is BS. The time when the vast majority of the guys leave with women is going to be after the club closes or right at that moment. The best strategy for the SNL game is to not try and convince her to choose you, but to build sexual tension and then be there when the opportunity arises.
4. CHASE (10:44 – 11:14)
You hear this all the time, ‘Don’t Chase Women’. I agree with this in the idea that you are always following a woman’s lead, and lowering yourself to her, so don’t do that. However, you do need to chase, you need to hunt, you need to pursue what you want and go for it. All men that are good with women (not just SNLs) want to go after what they want. If they see a woman they are attracted to they will go for it and enjoy the ‘going for it’ more than most things. When those men get turned down they don’t wallow in it, they think, how can I get that? They are always chasing. Perfect example that I have seen with separate men over 50 times is –
A guy makes out with a girl at a club. It is 2am, the venue kicks everyone out and outside the guy sees the girl. He makes eye contact, she makes eye contact and he signals her to come over. She leaves.
I ask him why he didn’t go after her and he says something like, ’that’s duplicating behavior’. More PUA bullshit written by angry men who don’t get laid.
Myself and every guy I know that get’s laid sees the girl, walks over and stays with her no matter what. In the ‘PUA Reddit Redpill’ world that would be what a ‘beta-male’ does. In their world an ‘Alpha’ spews hate in online forums.
5. Handle Logistics (11:15 – 19:23)
There’s a lot to this and you really need to watch the whole video for this. Take notes, go out and try it and take more notes. The key is not to ‘sell’ but to be there. If you build sexual tension you don’t need to do much, you need to be around her. You don’t need to worry about pulling the trigger until the time is right. You don’t need to worry about social value, she is already with you, and if there’s another guy, do less and he will blow himself out. Again, watch the video or listen to the audio for this.
6. END UP IN THE SAME VEHICLE (11:40 – 12:25)
Quite possibly the most important part to it all. Do not drive separate. If you need to leave your car. I have left my car and gotten it the next morning or later that night after sleeping with her over 100 times. Consider it part of it all. If you want to know what to say and how to handle all of this watch the video. It is covered thoroughly. Also, watch the video, try it then watch it again.
7. Fight For It (20:50 – 23:42)
This is really the whole message of this. Fight for being sexual. Fight for wanting to talk to her, fight for the logistics. You have got to want sex. You have got to want her, not because it is what men do, not because you’re lowering yourself to her, but because you want to have sex and you need to stat listening to your sex drive more than what society says your sex life should be.
If you have a dick and balls and a sex drive, get behind that wheel and put your foot on the gas. If you don’t then you’ve just decided to spend your time jerking off to a world that you wish you could have.
8. Wrapping it Up (23:43 – 25:00)
Once you’ve followed those steps it is all about Sexual Escalation.
If you’ve been listening to this podcasts or following TSL for a while you know we have a ton of material on that. But if you want a short step by step guide that will get a woman to be absolutely turned on to you in about 2 mins from the moment your foot steps through her apartment door, download Simple Guide to Escalation
Get the Download – Simple Escalation PDF
It will take you 5 mins to read and it is an easy concept to understand, use and have a great sex life by.
Email me if you have any question
I make these so you use them…if you’re having trouble just ask
Steve@thesexuallife.com
Steve
