Through Seduction we reach Authenticity. Through Authenticity, we have Liberation. Sex is bigger than our wants and needs, our wants and needs are a part of it. It is a force of nature that shapes our society and culture.
It gives us life. But we find ourselves afraid of it and that fear turns into all sorts of deformations, so we try and control it. If we can control something we can use it to make us happy right? We all agree in the power and need for sex, but we confuse ourselves trying to enjoy it. Nearly all of our problems with sex come from this misinterpretation. The idea of being ourselves sexually is something that is so far away from us that if we are offered the opportunity to be our true sexual selves we think we need to be something we are not.
The conflict lies in this –
When you are being sexual you’re absolutely being who you are.
True sex and seduction forces you into authenticity. The more you hold on to a façade while being sexual the more you will feel the pains of holding on to that façade.
It is impossible to live your best sexual life and your best social life without changing as a human being.
If you fight that change it will beat you,
If you’re not humble, you will be humiliated.
However if you submit to it you will grow into the person you were meant to be. There will be no more search, no more confusion to who you are and what you’re supposed to be.
In my life as a Pick Up Artist I proved that I could have the skillset to approach, entertain and seduce the world around me. However I missed the point of all this and was fortunate enough to be confronted, dominated and humbled by seduction. Achieving that skillset to ‘get’ what I wanted and being one of the best PUAs in the world gave me nothing – in fact it left me off worse than I began.
That skillset means nothing if you’re not generating love in your life. If you’re not seeing the world’s greatness in your interactions then your actions are simply limited to an act, a cool story, and a boost to your ego that slips away once everyone stops paying attention.
If your actions have true purpose behind them then the moment of authenticity appears. The true self is allowed to be seen. What is so important about this moment is that the wisdom of life comes from the ability to distinguish your true self from the ego’s reactions to the world.
It isn’t until I can be myself that I can express myself to the world.
If I can express myself then my experiences all have a part of me in them. To live a truly Sexual Life, you need to be open to the world around you. You need to be willing to feel what’s in front of you and allow those things to feel you.
If you’re only defining sex as the results of your wants then you’re happiness is only defined by a temporary alleviation from your discontent.
