In Nov of 2012 Anthony Johnson asked me to give a speech on Sex and Violence.

He gave a about a day’s notice, knowing that I generally like to improve most speeches, I said, “Let’s Do It!”

If you’re a man, and you want to be more sexual, and not feel the shame and fears society wraps around it you’re going to need to watch this speech.

It costs less than a fancy coffee at Starbucks!

By Steve Mayeda

Part of Masculinity is the urge and desire to have sex.  

Pursue sex, and be sexual.

The Sexual Urge is incomplete without the Exchange from the other person having sex.  

This is what critics don’t get.  This is where the lines get blurred.  

The Beauty lies in men and woman being so different.  Seduction, Love, Emotion, Exchange and Relationships are only beautiful because of that difference in men and women.   They make love work.Men should not be Demonized for being men.  

Men should not be demonized for being sexual.  Men should be proud of who they are, and assert that sexuality.

The fact of the matter is that a man needs to be a Sexual Man for his Mental, Physical and Emotional Health.

His sexual urge might be aggressive, it might be determined, it might be focused…however this does not demand violence, it searches for fulfillment in Exchange.

This where people get seduction wrong.  Violence is not Sex and Sex is not Violence.   Sex has to have an exchange of communication to have fulfillment and meaning.  If part of that is rough, lewd or in your opinion ‘not what you like’ that does not mean is it is violence.

Violence means that is no communication.  There is no exchange.

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Be Sexual

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Steve