(I couldnt post this on the lounge, it said you dont take PM’s…)
Hey man great to hear from you! I’ve already posted a review of my bootcamp on the forum (which included your tutelage) but I will def. write something up for you. So I take it you plan to start running bootcamps on your own??? Thats awesome man.
As for me things have been clicking along pretty well since the BC. Have NOT been able to pull going out 3-4 nights a week as I would have liked but have done pretty well….maybe too well in one case. I had three girls going and am now, I’m afraid, on the cusp of a girlfriend….Not what I want to be doing after dropping two grand on a bootcamp and just starting to get a lot better in field. Shit.
Anyway, I may have a flight up to Dallas at some point in the next month or so, I’d love to meet up and hit the town with you.
Booyakasha! I like the post. People born in pain, aka hammering on hot metal that is alternately held over a fire and then slammed hard with the hammer on an anvil, can become some pretty sharp swords.
Maybe now you’re being polished. I may still be getting a little hammered but I might be close to being a good fucking sword as well. But I don’t think we are meant to be swords to fight, but swords that inspire other people to make good fucking swords out of themselves when they have been hammered, burned and beaten for so long…
🙂
Maybe you don’t believe in God, but it’s pretty biblical… Perhaps some of us are here to have s shit ton of Pain for a while SO we can learn and then in turn teach others from the lessons we learned – that we NEVER would have learned had things been easy.
Advanced stuff is your special forte!Nice to see sneak peak of good stuff.You don’t afraid to say who is good, too.Like if you are newbie and learn this methodologically ,this guys are good teacher.
some other post you mentioned about company with CJ and Sinn.For students side,I think it was dream team,if you guys did that.Lovesystem used to be dream team company even after Mystery left.You took your boot camp from dream team guy and now you are also great as those guys.
Some of guy start to show students on videos.They are not smooth like guru’s infield stuff on Mehow but I can tell how they improved.I think best promotion for class.Because if you are not hero worshiper,bottom line is I want to get better with women.
some are really into hired gun stuff.I think it’s good to have specific course for advanced guys.
Steve, it has been a pleasure to meet you, No fake alpha chest-thumping, just being genuine. It will be my pleasure to take another trainride with you. Take care.
Wow that’s a profound story I can relate to. It seems like you’ve discovered a lot of wisdom by your adventures. I would like to recommend a book called ‘the power of now’ by Eckhart Tolle, you might have heard of it. It helped me a lot to completely be in the moment and let go of the feelings you described, and feel a deep sense of inner peace at any moment.
Anybody could have a good life if they want. But depends on the goal. If a guy wants strippers, the guru should be able to demo that(infield) and the guy should find the teacher with the closing ratio he wants.
But for an all around guy, he should be able to do it all and demo it all. Document his relationships and how he kept them good. I like what Munichhawk said to.
“The whole thing is that both sides have come up with these bizarre fucked up rules for each other so they’re in a constant state of confusion and frustration.”
Yes! This is a perfect description in a nut shell of the human condition. If we could just have like a Geneva Convention or something to erase all the fucked up rules!
“Every man and woman I know and talk to all want to be desired. They all want people to be attracted to them. Every woman I know wants to be hot, every woman I know wants the ability to arouse a man and every woman I know doesn’t want to be hit on poorly by a man.”
“She wants to her sexuality to be respected but what does she put out there to be respected. A girl with no personality demanding her personality to be respected because her frustrated friends that get walked on by men said so. The sad thing is neither women nor men do enough to be respected.”
You know people want a lot of things. But very few will do anything about those desires. If they want to be desired physically or be hot do they get off their fat ass and work out? Or quit eating loads of crap? How about actually doing things to educate themselves or developing a personality instead of letting the T.V. be their personality? Why are reality shows so popular? Because people have become so lazy that they even want to live their lives virtually and let the TV do it for them.
At the risk of sounding misogynistic, I think this is much more prevalent with women. All most of them really know about sex is what they see in the movies or read in Cosmo. Also, they (at least the ones out in bars and clubs) seem to have lost their social skills. They are unable to tell if a man is hitting on them or just being social / polite. They are unable to carry on a conversation with a man because they have no experience doing so. With the exception of strippers, most women really don’t know how to talk to a man socially. Most of their interactions with men socially are now done through text messaging and online dating. Because the majority of their social experience comes from the media (TV and movies), their expectation is when they go out to a bar and a man approaches it is supposed to be like in the romantic comedy movies. The only trouble is that in those movies, the women is actually attractive and can carry on a flirtatious banter. I rarely find this combination out in the wild anymore. What I do find more and more are unattractive women, with substandard personalities with extremely high expectations of what type of man they can attract. When those expectations aren’t met they become bitter and even more unattractive. As bad as the seduction community is at least it is a demonstration that men are doing something to improve themselves socially. Doing something is better than doing nothing. I see no such effort from the female community. They need to fix the problem from their side as well. Steve, your post has hit the nail right on the head. Too bad no women will likely ever read it!
This is definitely more of a question than a comment, but I”ll just say this: How as a man do you take responsibility for holding your own in a conversation with a women unused to socializing in a normal way? Are these situations doomed to repeat in nature throughout the exchange and eventually cease from frustration by both parties OR Can a guy take the burden of proof and lead the way and the interaction by being himself and being a mature sexual person? I can say you must just be yourself and take a chance on being the person you really are identity wise, remember you are spiritual and sexual, and everyone has limits and beliefs. Oh yeah, and anything can happen.
Bad ass! I’m the first poster on this blog and on your old one!
Wait… Am I your only fan? LOL
Just dropped by to show you some love. Call you tomorrow. Peace!
-Priest-
(I couldnt post this on the lounge, it said you dont take PM’s…)
Hey man great to hear from you! I’ve already posted a review of my bootcamp on the forum (which included your tutelage) but I will def. write something up for you. So I take it you plan to start running bootcamps on your own??? Thats awesome man.
As for me things have been clicking along pretty well since the BC. Have NOT been able to pull going out 3-4 nights a week as I would have liked but have done pretty well….maybe too well in one case. I had three girls going and am now, I’m afraid, on the cusp of a girlfriend….Not what I want to be doing after dropping two grand on a bootcamp and just starting to get a lot better in field. Shit.
Anyway, I may have a flight up to Dallas at some point in the next month or so, I’d love to meet up and hit the town with you.
Later
Booyakasha! I like the post. People born in pain, aka hammering on hot metal that is alternately held over a fire and then slammed hard with the hammer on an anvil, can become some pretty sharp swords.
Maybe now you’re being polished. I may still be getting a little hammered but I might be close to being a good fucking sword as well. But I don’t think we are meant to be swords to fight, but swords that inspire other people to make good fucking swords out of themselves when they have been hammered, burned and beaten for so long…
🙂
Maybe you don’t believe in God, but it’s pretty biblical… Perhaps some of us are here to have s shit ton of Pain for a while SO we can learn and then in turn teach others from the lessons we learned – that we NEVER would have learned had things been easy.
Advanced stuff is your special forte!Nice to see sneak peak of good stuff.You don’t afraid to say who is good, too.Like if you are newbie and learn this methodologically ,this guys are good teacher.
some other post you mentioned about company with CJ and Sinn.For students side,I think it was dream team,if you guys did that.Lovesystem used to be dream team company even after Mystery left.You took your boot camp from dream team guy and now you are also great as those guys.
Some of guy start to show students on videos.They are not smooth like guru’s infield stuff on Mehow but I can tell how they improved.I think best promotion for class.Because if you are not hero worshiper,bottom line is I want to get better with women.
some are really into hired gun stuff.I think it’s good to have specific course for advanced guys.
Steve, it has been a pleasure to meet you, No fake alpha chest-thumping, just being genuine. It will be my pleasure to take another trainride with you. Take care.
Love it.
Geez, that’s unbleievalbe. Kudos and such.
I have been enjoying reading your blogs. I get something out of each of them.
you write beautifully…
Let’s make a movie.
fuck.thouhght i left a comment?
forums who go over the identical matters? Thanks a lot!
Wow that’s a profound story I can relate to. It seems like you’ve discovered a lot of wisdom by your adventures. I would like to recommend a book called ‘the power of now’ by Eckhart Tolle, you might have heard of it. It helped me a lot to completely be in the moment and let go of the feelings you described, and feel a deep sense of inner peace at any moment.
Anybody could have a good life if they want. But depends on the goal. If a guy wants strippers, the guru should be able to demo that(infield) and the guy should find the teacher with the closing ratio he wants.
But for an all around guy, he should be able to do it all and demo it all. Document his relationships and how he kept them good. I like what Munichhawk said to.
Amazing!
Really amazing stuff Steve! Respect
One of the best articles to read on Christmas eve.
Thanks man
SODOMY!!!
“The whole thing is that both sides have come up with these bizarre fucked up rules for each other so they’re in a constant state of confusion and frustration.”
Yes! This is a perfect description in a nut shell of the human condition. If we could just have like a Geneva Convention or something to erase all the fucked up rules!
“Every man and woman I know and talk to all want to be desired. They all want people to be attracted to them. Every woman I know wants to be hot, every woman I know wants the ability to arouse a man and every woman I know doesn’t want to be hit on poorly by a man.”
“She wants to her sexuality to be respected but what does she put out there to be respected. A girl with no personality demanding her personality to be respected because her frustrated friends that get walked on by men said so. The sad thing is neither women nor men do enough to be respected.”
You know people want a lot of things. But very few will do anything about those desires. If they want to be desired physically or be hot do they get off their fat ass and work out? Or quit eating loads of crap? How about actually doing things to educate themselves or developing a personality instead of letting the T.V. be their personality? Why are reality shows so popular? Because people have become so lazy that they even want to live their lives virtually and let the TV do it for them.
At the risk of sounding misogynistic, I think this is much more prevalent with women. All most of them really know about sex is what they see in the movies or read in Cosmo. Also, they (at least the ones out in bars and clubs) seem to have lost their social skills. They are unable to tell if a man is hitting on them or just being social / polite. They are unable to carry on a conversation with a man because they have no experience doing so. With the exception of strippers, most women really don’t know how to talk to a man socially. Most of their interactions with men socially are now done through text messaging and online dating. Because the majority of their social experience comes from the media (TV and movies), their expectation is when they go out to a bar and a man approaches it is supposed to be like in the romantic comedy movies. The only trouble is that in those movies, the women is actually attractive and can carry on a flirtatious banter. I rarely find this combination out in the wild anymore. What I do find more and more are unattractive women, with substandard personalities with extremely high expectations of what type of man they can attract. When those expectations aren’t met they become bitter and even more unattractive. As bad as the seduction community is at least it is a demonstration that men are doing something to improve themselves socially. Doing something is better than doing nothing. I see no such effort from the female community. They need to fix the problem from their side as well. Steve, your post has hit the nail right on the head. Too bad no women will likely ever read it!
Like we’ve always said, man, more people need to go to meetings.
Express themselves. Embrace vulnerability
This is definitely more of a question than a comment, but I”ll just say this: How as a man do you take responsibility for holding your own in a conversation with a women unused to socializing in a normal way? Are these situations doomed to repeat in nature throughout the exchange and eventually cease from frustration by both parties OR Can a guy take the burden of proof and lead the way and the interaction by being himself and being a mature sexual person? I can say you must just be yourself and take a chance on being the person you really are identity wise, remember you are spiritual and sexual, and everyone has limits and beliefs. Oh yeah, and anything can happen.