Living Your Ideal Life – Why not now?
For the past few years I have wanted to build something that influenced people on all levels. Anyone that wanted to their life in any way shape or form could start at one centralized location.
In my teaching I have always (and sometimes only) been inspired by people’s ability to transform from one person to another. Perhaps this is due to my own changes, obstacles and people telling me personal transformation was impossible. The bottom line is that anybody, no matter what your life, the people in your life say, history and beliefs are can live a great life. You can do that right now. There is never an excuse good enough to make you give up on living your ideal life.
The Challenge
To Myself and Anyone who wants to Join Me.
At the end of this week I will be announcing a public, free, resource program that is designed to give you, me and anybody else the right information, motivation and design to live their best life ideal. It will cover health, mentality, lifestyle and business.
Of course, when it comes to life one size never fits all. This Challenge is going to feature the best coaches in the world, of many different methods. It will be on going and in a constant rotation.
If you’re reading this and wanting to live a better lifestyle, be happier, be healthier and have more independence I want there to be a resource and a motivator for you. I want there to be one place where you can go and get the clarity, perspective and motivation necessary to take those difficult steps of self-transformation.
In my own journey I personally, I realized that to live the best life, I needed to be the best person. My authentic self had to have no compensation. Self-expression became the only goal and the highest standard of Living the Sexual Life. I changed in my perspective and actions in all areas of my life. I soon realized that my outside world was an expression of my inner world.
I want to begin a public journey that focuses on Health and Fitness, Mentality, and Lifestyle. In fact I want it to be about any area of your life.
In all my teaching I have come to know and recognize one thing –
The Ability for someone to live the best expression of themselves is invaluable, and the only path for fulfilling transformation.
The goal is a way of life.
You Tell Me
I want to know from you…
Answer these questions in the ‘comments’ area I could know what people are looking for to change, and how to go about it.
What would you like to change about yourself to live the ideal life?
This could be with Health and Fitness, Mentality, Lifestyle, Sex Love and Relationships. I don’t care what it is, I want what is missing from your ideal life?
Why aren’t you doing it? What is keeping you from living your ideal? Motivation, no plan, no money what it is?
I also want to know what would motivate you? What would make you want to jump up and say, “I am ready to commit to a change!”
I know some of these questions might seem kind of personal, but this road will be personal. I will be invested and you need to invest yourself! If I’m going to do this…I need you! I need your feedback.
Let’s do it!
Post your comments and check back in a few days!
Steve
Wow.
This looks really interesting. Very much looking forward to more details.
Awesome bro.
sometimes i cant tell if im full of self doubt or full of denial.
i just want to be more confident in all aspects of my life and stop second guessing myself.
i guess my main motivation at the moment is that i fear to get to the day and look back on my life and realise
that i didnt do half the things i wanted to do. whatever they may be.
cheers,
O.
I know that many times one lets to be limitated by beliefs and past experience., what i think has stopped me so far is taking steps out of my comfort zone, cause its like trying to run whith your eyesfolded. no matter how hard you try to run you will end u giving litle stpes to feel more comfortable while you advance in the depths of the unknown.
A good thing i like to say myself when i feel fear is about stopping from trying something new. wether its aproaching a girl( or a group of them), or trying a new maneouver is this: I have the right to discover what im truly capable, to learn about the challenge and about myself, and if I stay in the comfort zone I wil never find Out SO :!!!GO GO GO GO¡¡¡¡
i have a habit of taking three steps forward,two steps back….my trade is painter,drywall and home remodeler..the economy messed that up..i need a better job, im tired of this feast or famine crap…im looking for the most sweetest jiu-jitsu chick i can find that is smart,beautiful etc….
i usually live this carefree jiu-jitsu surfer zen free spurit but its no longer makes me happy.. i feel lost and powerless.and im a ex combat vet, but my mental toughness is taking a bwating.im not one to give up,so here i am steve..brownsville sux! its famine here. .only my bjj school makes me happy, but i need more…im pissing in the wind.
Man, when are you coming back to ATX? I haven’t been training BJJ, I gotta get back on the mat.
Woh Steve! Have you been reading my mind? I was thinking just yesterday that I would love to see you do something like this! You’re inspiring me with all your health changes and life.
What would you like to change about yourself to live the ideal life?
Health and fitness – want to cut the crap from my diet and get in shape so I have a clearer mind, more energy and stamina to do what I want to do. Mentality is a part of that – being able to enjoy life more everyday and not be so outcome oriented and fearing challenges. To have confidence in my business so I actually make real money instead of hiding in fake busy-ness and never taking real action that comes from putting myself out there. Relationship wise – already have awesome people in my life but I want to improve my social interactions in general so I am offering more to those around me, making life more fun and exciting for people. Having the sexual experiences I want is already going pretty well, just needs tweaking and can always improve eg. for one thing I’d like to get a penis – ha! 😉
Why aren’t you doing it? What is keeping you from living your ideal? No money, mental attitude and back injuries (from not exercising). Getting there slowly but I feel an overhaul is necessary.
What would motivate you? Accountability and a support network. I’m already pretty motivated, I just don’t follow through on the important stuff, then get down about it, then have to start again.
I really appreciate this. Good stuff.
I can’t tell you how much I take for granted my choice to change my life and make it the best. I do these challenges because to be honest I need the motivation and community of people to (selfishly) help me build a better life.
I’ll stand with you brother. I believe in you Steve and I see a little bit of myself in all of them.
I am that beautiful reflection you see in the mirror Jim…LOL
Coffee soon…I come to you, or you come to me. Maria and I could use a road trip
I want to lose about 30 more pounds, im 18, already lost 40, still on track started back up legitly yesterday,, im loving… And i want to be more wantable by women, yes sex would be fun, but honestly… Im looking for a committed easy to get along with and fun loving girlfriend , nothing would make me happier… I want to know essentially how to get one… Im a stud… not being cocky right now, but i dont know why but the ladies like me but arent inlove woth me. Thanks bud
Hey Aaron,
That’s great you’ve committed yourself to your success and you know the direction you want to move in. From my personal experience, I once walked a similar path looking for happiness in love and to my surprise I found happiness in all the areas where I wasn’t looking, so when I looked back I’d already found the love for happiness.
If you don’t mind me asking, if you were at your ideal weight range, so you wake up every morning and look and how great you are in the mirror, would this have solved your ideal fun loving relationship you want?
The answer of course is personal to you, but this is just one of the path’s to self discovery that Steve offers in TSL program. It’s not solving one piece of the jigsaw, it’s about building a life that puts it all together in a complete structure.
I’m lookin’ forward to know abt your project, Steve. In some areas of life my limited beliefs prevent me to get my goals. Sometimes I’m just can’t be confident enough, and I think it harms me, u see my point? In some areas I am in the comfort zone and in the most of the times I simply “don’t care” whether it changes or not, thinking that things will change soon or later. I really think I need to develop my confidence and improve my way of life. Learning how to focus on my goals and what are the best tools to help me getting there…. thks!
We were just talking about limiting beliefs on my call earlier today. I think this will be a huge part of what we move towards in this. It is always hard for me to determine for my own growth
‘are these limiting beliefs?’
‘do I need to just take action?’
‘do I need to explore what my fears are?’
and so on. It can get somewhat complex, but one thing is for certain, once I know what the issue is and I have explored myself I the answer is always simple.
We will definitely have this as a topic for one of the challenges.
Thanks
Steve
Hi Steve. For me it is still hard to take responsibility for my own life situation. Acknowledge to myself that it is ALL my fault. My loneliness, my desperation, my inability to express feelings and to appreciate what life brings to me…i could say more but this is good enough for change i guess…
This is an interesting take on things and very relevant. I think there is a lot that you bring up that needs to be addressed in the self-help industry. Here is my take on it. If you got it, you need to deal with it. Whether that is your fault of the world’s fault if you’re part of life, your responsibility it to live best with what you got.
Let’s take the example of sex, verbal or physical abuse as a child. This is something that is not your fault and you’re a victim in. There is no blame on you. It will effect your life in big ways. However there is a time where you will have to deal with it. We are not responsible for the abuse or situations but you are responsible for your actions to deal with it. If is easy at times to think of it as something you have no power over. However I will say this the idea that because of something out of your control happening in your life you should be unhappy or have an excuse for that is insane and is shame in itself.
If you have had issues in your life, you can be happy. You can live good. The answer is already within you and they solution will come when the inner self and outer self align. I can tell you first hand, I have personally dealt with abuse and been accused of it as well. I have had enormous consequences because of it. I have also lived with many issues that effected my health, life and family. However, I have always found a way to be happy and make it better than it was. There is always an answer.
Thanks dude!
Steve
I have taken a lot of your tips and research and it works I guess my issue is confidence and building that unshakeable mindset of confidence.. I view my challenges as opportunities instead of failures. But there are some that are a more difficult to deal with when deal with women and people.
I wholeheartedly agree and for a number of reasons.
The harshest critic we will ever face is ourselves. A wise man will discover some of the most important life lessons, in the most unlikely places. One of these rules could be to have a mentor in each area of your life that you want to succeed in, whether it be Relationships, Health or Wealth, as these are the main umbrellas that we strive towards and really desire to feel successful in. Since we were children, we have had people to look up to, these guardians showed us how to tie our shoe laces and dress ourselves, how to behave in public, and beyond all this they taught us other small things inside our lives that we take for granted each day. We’ve also learned lessons in the things we don’t know, but have learned to appreciate.
Surrounding ourselves with like minded people, especially ones who can provide new insights and are far wiser than we can consider, is one of the fastest ways to learn and reach for our full potential. This is because all change and learning happens unconsciously first, and the most powerful way to learn is by doing and taking daily action, even if they are little steps to begin with. By having this network of growth, it allows us to reach further than what we had previously thought was possible because we can receive feedback and guidance to learn things even though we may not be paying attention to what we are learning, but is happening even though we may not be realising it.
The second thing I’d to comment on is the idea of daily meditation.
Unfortunately some people have the idea that meditation is this new age thing that only hippies do and they couldn’t be further from the truth.
For a moment, Id like you to consider the next question that a mentor once asked me, even though it may seem a little bit odd at first. To the extent that you fully consider this question, you’ll begin to understand something about who you really are.
If we were having a conversation a year from today, and you were to look back over the year back to today, what would need to have happened in your life for you to feel fully happy?
And with the things you did consider, what’s blocking you from having this?
Beyond everything else what needs to have happened in order to have this?
Aside from the things which are unique to you, some of the thoughts you had may have involved something along the lines of going to the gym so you can look and feel great, finding that special someone so you experience love.
I want you to imagine a beautiful stallion, muscular and full of potential but trapped inside a small stable that the farmer has placed him in, with barely enough room to grow and being taunted by freedom and green grass that always seems to be just outside of reach beyond that locked gate. This stallion is full of undiscovered potential, he could be a brilliant race horse that makes millions of dollars or he could be a simple horse that roams fields enjoying his personal freedom, either way what ever could be for this stallion will never happen whistle he is placed within the farmers boundaries limiting his freedom, so until he is able to experience freedom you’ll never know what he could achieve.
This is what meditation does. It allows you to create deadly focus to hone in on your desires, so you will be free to achieve the desires you currently dream about, no matter how wild they are so you can move around boundaries that others have placed you in and arm your self with positive resources that push even your boundaries so you are experiencing something new, while reaching your full potential in whatever ways that might be.
This is why regular meditation is one of the most powerful skill sets you will ever learn, and it’s because of our Mind Body relationship.
If you’d like to discuss this further, I’d love to chat with you. You can email me at 99TheEdge@gmail.com
I agree in the ideals, I am a product of my habits, to change is to going against what I feel like doing. In the world of seducing or learning to seduce there is much lows than some little highs.
So I feel that when I chase happiness I get the opposite resentment from expectations, if I can commit 80% to showing saying the words and doing the deeds, in training and seductive expressions.
I say fuck it, for now, be Nihilistic acceptance the suffering, or the empty feeling from desire without connection. Baptism by fire, pride, ego. Keep escalating until it is natural, I am adaptable, I can stay go, watch or do, feel shitty or accept shitty dig deep and feel indifferent.
1. What I am missing? All the above. I am out of shape (Health and Fitness), Low self-esteem (Mentality), working minimum wage and dress like it with few hang out friends (Lifestyle), and haven’t had a relationship in 2 years (with no sex) and never had a good relationship (love, sex, and relationship). I want to change myself completely where I can enjoy my life and not be ashamed of myself.
2. What is preventing me? Lack of motivation as well as money. I get started, then procrastinate till I fall deeper than before.
3. What would motivate me? Having someone in my corner. I don’t need someone that tells me that I am doing great, I want someone to keep me going. Whether by hot irons or running at my side, as long as we keep pushing it. Also if I can see my actions helping others
I know this was posted a long time ago, but I hope to follow, improve on my life and the others around me.